Stephen Kaufman, M.D., Christian Vegetarian Association (CVA)
Essay: Existential Questions, part 4: Relief of Guilt
Last week, I posed the question: How do we resist the temptation to
transfer our sense of shame and guilt onto others? This is crucial if we are
avoid the temptation to scapegoat, and it is impossible to have a world in
which God’s will is done “on earth as in heaven” as long as people
participate in the injustice of scapegoating.
A central part of Christianity’s response to the perennial problem of
scapegoating is the teaching that all our sins are forgivable. Christian
writings and tradition hold that, because God loves all God’s Creation, God
is willing to forgive any transgression as long as the desire for
forgiveness is genuine, i.e., the person genuinely aims to avoid sin in the
future. Faith in the tenet that we are forgivable quells our desire to blame
other people for our shortcomings, failures, and sins. Indeed, just as Jesus
said that people can distinguish between true prophets and false prophets
“by their fruits” (Matthew 7:16), those with strong faith are disinclined to
condemn, scapegoat, or otherwise victimize other individuals. As I see it,
those with strong Christian faith can and should denounce hurtful actions
and take steps to prevent further damage, but they do not want to see anyone
hurt or punished.
Vengeance is often self-righteous scapegoating, because vengeance presumes
that we have not contributed to the conditions that have led to discord or
injury. When we model our behavior of God’s forgiving ways, we are letting
go of the natural desire for vengeance in favor of a faith in God’s
universal love. In this way, we become open to Jesus’ teaching that we
should love our neighbor as ourselves. Herein, I think, lies the solution to
the paradox that responding honestly and fully to the question of our
origins focuses our concern outward, while responding honestly and fully to
the question of what happens when we die focuses our concern inward. We are
to love ourselves, as creations of God, and we are to love everyone and
everything else, since they are also creations of God.
To love our neighbor as ourselves is a Christian answer to the third
existential question: What is the purpose of my life? To show what Jesus
meant by loving our neighbor, Jesus gave the example of the Good Samaritan
who acted with love, compassion, and concern. Who are our neighbors?
Neighbors are those whose lives can be changed by our actions and include
family, friends, community-members, strangers, and animals. If we exclude
anyone, we undermine our response to one or both of the first two
existential questions and, in doing so, allow existential anxiety to plague
our souls. This is why great spiritual leaders have almost always embraced
everyone, including animals, in their circle of compassion and concern. This
is also why stories about these great spiritual leaders have described them
as having inner peace, even though many of these spiritual leaders
experienced rejection or were even killed. I think one reason people are
attracted to spiritual leaders such as Jesus is that all of us crave the
inner peace they manifested. Jesus, even as he suffered on the cross, said
“Father, into thy hands I commit my spirit” Luke 23:46) and “it is finished”
(John 19:30). Jesus evidently found equanimity in the face of the profound
existential challenges of life. Yet, few Christians (and likewise followers
of other spiritual leaders) have the faith to fully embrace Jesus’ teaching
that we should love our neighbor as ourselves. Instead, many Christians
gravitate toward religious “authorities” who claim that we can have the
salvation that Jesus offers without giving up the egocentric benefits of
exploiting and scapegoating other individuals. These, I submit, are false
teachers, about whom Jesus said, “Not every one who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord’
shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of my Father who
is in heaven” (Matthew 7:21).
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