How can we, as mothers, rationalize buying into a system that exploits mother animals? How can we, as feminists, support a structure that abuses, rapes and incarcerates millions of female cows every day, and kidnaps their children over and over? How can we, as women who demand bodily autonomy for ourselves and our fellow humans, enable the breeding, imprisonment and stolen motherhood of billions of female hens every single day?

“From the bosom of the devaststed earth a voice goes up with our
own. It says: Disarm, Disarm!"
~ In 1870, Julia Ward Howe called for a 'Mother’s Day for
Peace', dedicated to the celebration of peace and the eradication of
war.
Mother’s day is complicated for me. On the one hand, it’s a
celebration of my amazing kids and mom, and a day to bask in
gratitude for these relationships, for these opportunities to grow
and learn and love in this lifetime.
It’s also a day where I take time to meditate on violence, inspired
by Julia Ward Howe, who in 1870 called for a “Mother’s Day for
Peace”, dedicated to the celebration of peace and the eradication of
war. As expressed in what is called her “Mother’s Day Proclamation”
from 1870, Howe felt that “mothers should gather to prevent the
cruelty of war and the waste of life, since mothers of mankind alone
bear and know the cost.”
We are, as always, in the throes of war. Not just in the Middle
East, but also in Colombia, Iraq, Kenya, Nigeria, Somalia, and
Ukraine. Humans are killing, maiming, torturing and enslaving other
humans in service of principle, power, fear, control, religion,
patriarchy, and a myriad of other justifications and
rationalizations. Humans are acting out their own trauma on others,
as we are known to do. Mothers are losing their children to death or
trauma every day. In all of these places, governments and
organizations are using US-made bombs to carry out the violence.
And as horrifying and unspeakable as this is, there is another
pernicious and ubiquitous war raging under our very noses, rarely
reported on by mainstream media, in which human participation is
virtually universal. It’s happening on our farms, in our slaughter
houses, in our shopping carts, on our plates, and in our bellies
every single day. This war goes largely unnoticed, unexamined,
unchallenged by even the most ardent lovers of justice, freedom,
equality and inclusion.
I am speaking of the constant rape, torture, incarceration, family
separation, traumatization and killing of non-human animals in
service of human beings’ desires, comfort, traditions, conditioning,
and convenience — aka animal agriculture.
The collective loss of human life and trauma caused by the current
human-on-human wars likely numbers in the hundreds of thousands —
staggering, unimaginable, unacceptable.
The number of cows currently imprisoned in the dairy industry,
today, repeatedly raped, having their children stolen from them, and
eventually being killed for meat after they’re too old to “produce”
anymore, is around 270 MILLION at any given time — staggering,
unimaginable, unacceptable.
The number of hens, right now in this moment, living in
worse-than-hell conditions for the sole purpose of producing eggs
for human consumption until they die of disease or are slaughtered
is more than 33 BILLION — staggering, unimaginable, unacceptable.
How are we not in the streets decrying this violence, too? How do we
remain asleep as billions of mother and child beings suffer the
worst imaginable fates?
Yes, I am equating the worth of human lives with the worth of animal
lives. As a human committed to identifying and uprooting hierarchy
and injustice in all realms, I see speciesism (“the assumption of
human superiority leading to the exploitation of animals”) as the
final frontier in the justice movement. Speciesism is an oppressive,
coercive system we’ve all been brainwashed into, and it’s literally
destroying our planet and our ability to embody the compassion
needed to snap us out of the delusion of violence at whose feet we
currently worship.
How will we ever end human-on-human violence unless we address the
horrors of our systemic control over and exploitation of non-human
animals and the Earth and all life? Can we work on both these
movements simultaneously? Can we fight for justice for oppressed and
marginalized humans (who, by the way, are disproportionately harmed
by the animal agriculture industry), making choices in service of
ending their oppression, while ALSO fighting for justice for
non-human beings and making similar choices to end their oppression?
To me, this is logic.
And I believe this is what’s being asked of us in these harrowing
yet potent times: to tear down the walls, smash the binary,
dismantle coercive hierarchies, and stop clinging desperately or
unconsciously to views and delusions that inevitably result in
othering and more violence. If we can see, truly see, the ways we
believe we are superior to other life forms, the ways we “other”
non-human animals, the ways we justify eating them and their
secretions as necessary and sometimes even “humane”, we might have a
chance of transforming our world in all the ways that matter.
So I ask: how can we, as mothers, rationalize buying into a system
that exploits mother animals? How can we, as feminists, support a
structure that abuses, rapes and incarcerates millions of female
cows every day, and kidnaps their children over and over? How can
we, as women who demand bodily autonomy for ourselves and our fellow
humans, enable the breeding, imprisonment and stolen motherhood of
billions of female hens every single day?
What if all the human mothers went vegan? What could our world look
like then?
It’s my 12-year vegan anniversary today. If you want to join me on
this journey, please reach out. I want to be your friend on this
glorious adventure of compassion and awakening. Every baby step
counts. Small shifts matter. Going slowly, at capacity, is OK.
Pushing ourselves out of our comfort zones is OK, too. All in all,
it’s a joyful, wonderful, healing, inclusive and hopeful journey
where we trust and listen to our hearts, follow and speak truth, and
keep kindness in service of all life as our deepest intention. After
all, isn’t this what we’re trying to teach our kids to do? And isn’t
it said that actions speak even louder than words?
I love you.
~ Charity