You know how it goes, don’t you. Well, I’m sure that many do,
Yes, it’s the last thing one needs, and it makes you feel worse too
I’m sure that such folk mean well, they’re trying to help, but slug!
Out comes all that great advice, when what you’re needing, is a hug.

Yes, you’ve heard it all before, said the same to others too,
You know that what they’re saying is unquestionably true.
But there is a time and place, and it certainly isn’t now,
But because they don’t see that, their pithy words rub, and how!

You’re already feeling down, and struggling under a weight,
It’s encouragement you need, not what will exacerbate.
You’re hurting, frustrated, discouraged, you’re down in the dumps,
And you can well do without, what amounts to, wordy thumps.

Sometimes they say things poorly, incorrectly, even badly,
Your spirits sink, you recoil, even feel worse physically.
You’re wanting a helping hand, not a fist full of advice,
Yes, a hug; or an arm around the shoulder would be nice.

Most of us have our moments, yes, those times when down we go,
Perhaps times when we lose heart, or an inner weakness show.
And that’s when we need support, a word of comfort, a hug,
Not a fist full of advice, wordy thumps, a heavy slug.

But often words aren’t needed, nor wanted; just love and care,
That’s why folk should listen more, in other words, just be there.
Sometimes it’s just their presence, that compassion in their eyes,
Or arm around your shoulder, that calms, heals, and satisfies.

Sometimes we just need a friend, not a counsellor or sage,
Yes, friends who’re there when needed, who our times of need can gauge.
And should we words desire, friends who’d mind those things they say,
For something said unwisely, can upset more, or ricochet.

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