By the way, according to the Bible, Jesus (who is God in the flesh) is most definitely a male. Also, about the point of everybody experiencing the pain they caused, when our sins are forgiven, they are remembered no more. Our slate is wiped clean. If we truly repent, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins. I will have to get back with you on the exact verses, I have my Bible in front of me, but I can't find my glasses.
Anyway, we should love people and try to reach as many as we can, but the Bible does say that most people will reject God. He is a LOVING God, but he gives people a free will. Most will never experience that love. I'm so sorry. It keeps me awake some nights but it's the truth.